Life Lessons, Live and Learn

It’s funny in life how life lessons come at us. Since buying our first house and now on our third, yes third, and my husband now working in hvac, the plumbers (and gas tech’s) daughter has become the gas tech’s wife and is learning so much with each house…

Most recently, being so thrilled with hubby replacing a burnt out part on our geothermal hvac unit and enjoying the cool air… Well it’s been short lived. Unfortunately our wonderful water furnace that has lasted a very good life of 23 years will now rest in peace.

Great plans upside down and slightly turned around, after hubby spent hours repairing the unit last night and cleaning it, what really was a problem unfortunately was not the only problem. Live and learn, in this business it can happen often, frustrating for both the homeowners (us in this case) and our tech’s.

Truth be told we knew we would have to do something with this system as it has been getting older, which haven’t we all. I won’t knock a Geothermal unit one bit, but when we have gas available we both have been looking forward to make the switch, eh perhaps just not being forced to do so.

If anything I can relate with our customers even more, yup from my own life lessons… In the spring it was waking up to no water… Cheers to living in the country and having a well. Even bigger cheers to my dad and hubs who spent the morning changing our pump lol! It’s funny but some customers have felt it almost reassuring when we can give our own life experiences, they’re not the only ones who have “bad luck”, or things happen at the worst time.

I’m A… What do you do?

Not that long ago there were quite a few feathers being ruffled by some of the “teachers” requests. I wasn’t shy at voicing my opinion… really though for some, of course not just teachers you can have it all and still think it’s not enough. I voiced my opinion but at the same  time I did also voice that my kids and also myself have been lucky to have truly dedicated teachers who truly love their job and care about the children coming in and out of their classrooms.

Teachers is not what this post is about. 

We are also in an industry which catches flack for being “over priced” or “too expensive” and many times the guys “only did this” or “just did that”, unfortunately being a common complaint many in the trade hear. More recently the trades profession now has representation through the Ontario College of Trades. Yearly licenses to be renewed through and education to be regulated by. 

Growing up in this business I know the crazy hours my dad worked, as well as the other service guys. Now not only me being a part of our everyday business, but my husband being hands on with service, repair and installation,  I am honored to deal with customers and be a true part of providing them service. 

Yes, service comes at a cost, much like a mechanic, massage therapist, eye doctor, dentist, carpenter, hair stylist, home detailers or decorators, landscapers and lawn care. However the true talent of a plumber, hvac mechanic, backhoe operator, pump truck operator, electrician… not really as glorified or exciting as some of the above trades and professions. Those above you can see and/or feel, If you are calling us or one of our colleagues, there is typically a problem and sometimes a major!

I feel very lucky to work with the people who I do, to feel proud of not only the work they do but know they have pride in themselves, their work  and the services we provide. 

The kitchen is the heart of the home, your mechanical room is like the veins, or circulation system within your home, where your plumbing, heating, cooling etc originates from. 

In this business it’s not everyday the guys receive compliments for their work, let’s face it some days they are literally dealing with sh*t!

Tonight I personally am (again) appreciating all the crazy long hours, evenings, days and even weekends spent in school for hubby to come home after a long day at work to fix our hvac system. A few hours later he had it working, after time spent weeks ago diagnosing the problem. 

Living in a house that truly is fitting to our dream home we have lots of exciting future plans for our home, involving a few other trades people who we will be hiring to help bring these dreams to light… 

There truly is an appreciation we should all have for the variety of professions and trades. Each forms and plays a part in our life, whether we want it to or not (everyone loves those hvac or vehicle break downs right?! ;) ).  Appreciate but also take care of what we do have, maintenance goes along away not only in home repairs, vehicle repairs, our own mental health and our relationships! 

Kudos to my hubs tonight! Another reminder of why for all those years with very young kids (ok babies), many days feeling stressed and sometimes like a single parent, it’s not only worth it for us but also for so many of our customers. And now we finally get to sit down together for a few minutes before going to bed :). Ah many the nights of a technicians wife, I know a lot of the wives of our guys and even my own mom would agree! It can suck, but the guys truly do an awesome job! Great job, again hubby! 

My rings and their meaning

I have never been a girlie girl who loves a lot of jewelry. I am a girl who cherishes a few key pieces which hold so much meaning, to me.

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My rings.

My engagement ring. My wedding ring. My 1st anniversary ring. My 5th anniversary ring and my 10 years together ring.

More recently I took my 1st anniversary ring into our local jewelry store to inquire about adding our family birthstones to the two bare spots on the lower band. This ring means so very much to me. It not only symbolizes our 1st year together as husband and wife, it symbolizes hope at a time when it was very difficult for us during our attempts to grow our family.

I am THRILLED with the results of this ring, having our 4 birthstones added. The boys and the girls.

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This ring now holds even more meaning. From our 1st year married, hope to grow our family and now proudly displaying my family’s birthstones.

Us… not perfect but perfectly us

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My wee little mini me was taking photos at a family bbq we attended a couple weeks ago, she tried twice to get a photo from us, granted the weight of the camera is significant, the focus fell above us. I adore this photo, its not perfect, its breaking a lot of photography rules, but its us, very much like our life, its not perfect but its perfectly us.

Kids just wanna have fun… family fun with cousins!

Our kids love their family, they love spending time just as a family of 4 and as Madison says “I love it when our whole family gets together…” they are too cute!

The past few weekends they have been lucky to get to see lots of their cousins and had a blast!!!

SO many memories made :)

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The kids are lucky to have a great bunch of cousins :) Even though some of these cousins we only see a few times a year they always have a blast!!!

Happy [Early] 40th Birthday Celebration… for the man I love!

Since my hubby’s birthday falls on Canada’s birthday we decided to celebrate with our family and friends at home, as well as on his birthday next weekend of course ;) Anyone who knows me knows when Im excited about something its rare that I can keep my lips sealed, turns out some of our family and friends are the same, of course I say that with lots of love because our son is one of them!

We had a wonderful gathering of family and friends at our home last night, we missed some of you who were not able to join us, we had a blast it was SO much fun! Thank you to all those who did come, you truly made it SO very special for us and especially for the birthday boy!

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The early gathering :) I do wish I had taken more photos ;)
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There is something I just love with this photo even though its totally not in focus and was a test shot my sister took lol.

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Counting candles lol

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Happy Birthday to my hubby… the Canada Day baby!

We get to celebrate again next weekend :)

The the father of my children

I will never forget that moment, in our first house after so much sorrow, pain, distance… it had finally happened… We were going to be parents!!!

A memory that I will always treasure, that moment I told my hubby he was going to be a daddy.

Every year is more amazing, every new “stage” so much fun! Xoxo

One of the best life lessons we have been blessed to be a part of is parenting. There is certainly no text book of how to be the perfect parent or how to properly raise your child. Our children are true blends of us, and I couldn’t imagine a better man to have shared this journey with. I am so excited to share many more years and memories with you and our babies… yes they will always be my babies!

Happy Father’s Day!

We spent an amazing weekend with our family (again!) :)

Wonderful Happy Fathers Day wishes to my hubby, my kids couldn’t ask for a better dad! To my father in law who raised an amazing man who I am proud to call my husband and so happy he is the father of my babies. Of course to my own dad, who has always been there for me no matter what, has taught me so many valuable life lessons and the importance of a hard days work (its not always easy working with family but the pros far out weigh the cons), that we are so much alike but can also work awesome together, that sometimes life wont always go as “planned” and those can be the most valuable life lessons (especially the most difficult), most of all who has taught me that family is everything and I am so honored to not only call him dad, but also my hubby to have him as his father in law and our children to have him as Granpa.

Of course to our wonderful family including uncles and our friends… a very happy day to you too!

Your Life As Art Photography by Pam

Artist & Intuitive | Pamela Zmija

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