More of This!

What is the one thing that truly lights up your life – beyond your job, husband/wife, kids, etc… what is YOUR thing?!

Mine, is photography.

One thing I am leaving within 2025 is allowing others opinions to force change in my own life. Or be a source of anxiety or fear. In a broad form and also with what brings out your deepest passions, joys, desires and is THE thing that fills your creative mind.

In 2026 and beyond, lets see SO much more of this.

Within our home, my daughter has recently got into sewing, she is really good at it. As a mother I say that, and because she is, really good for getting started. My mom, elated she has someone to share her deep knowledge of the skill to. We have been able to shift things to give her a dedicated spot for this now.

This. More of this.

The creatives are of all kinds.

Anything hands on, anything that requires dreaming, anything you can tangibly create, whatever your thing is that you love – work, hobby… more of this!

I work with plumbers and gas techs, they are by trade creative as they design and repair systems – yes as their job however I am in awe when they create a rough in design for a system that flows perfectly. I love working with numbers, I can also get lost in a photo walk or going through images. I could not do what the guys in the field do, and thats ok!

My husband, son and daughter all love to fish, the guys more, however when provided the opportunity our daughter is right in there with them – while I photograph them ;)

Our son began helping a buddy with his race car, the irony that his parents met at a race track and even when pregnant with him he was hearing the cars go round!

My grandma knits – hmmm actually, this is probably crochet, blankets for us all again this year – something I honestly treasure, money cannot replace what someone has created with love. I could walk by this blanket in a big box store, but coming from her, handmade by her, knowing the time and effort she puts into them – always a first choice to snuggle with! Also something that I admire, but am not gifted with the talent.

Some people bake, or ski, read, write, are really into fitness or body building, cook, quilt, golf, hockey, basketball, baseball, do crosswords or puzzles, walk, run, whatever it is – if its something you or someone else enjoys, let it be that. Let it be enjoyment, or even ask them about it – watch their face light up – or nervousness set in, hmmm actually sometimes that can cause a person a bit of anxiety. Be a positive support!

Someone recently made a comment to me, while camera in hand, about how they have a good camera and most time lately they only choose to grab their cell phone because ‘its the same, there’s no difference between a camera and a phone, it produces the same thing’… Confidently, I did speak up and said, ‘except that is not true and there is a difference’. My comment was ignored and he continued on. Phones are convenient, 100%, yes I use mine all the time. However they are not the same. Regardless of the quality of something, I also highly recommend using common sense with making opinionated comments to someone about their passion!

In 2026 choose to build people up.

We can gain so much more from building each other up, we do not have to be good at everything, we do what aligns with our heart and allow others to confidently do the same! Even if someone might be “better” than us, rather see each as our own individual artistic style.

God appreciates alignment and making things right, so I had to laugh when I realized that a family member of his, received one of my custom canvas prints of the loon family, in the large group gift grab! How cool that he will see it and be reminded of me and my passion for photography! Also awesome hearing others compliment the canvas, this was a true reminder for me to never, ever let someone else put out your flame! What lights you up – is for a reason!

In 2026 we do not bring forth ignorance, which includes the passive aggressive way of putting people down! This will leave you far in the dust!

In 2026 I am so excited to dedicate even more of my time to my photography and capturing the beauty all around us.

The Significance of a Simple Snapshot in Family Moments

One of my favourite things about photography is going back through the images. I used to check my camera far too often while in the moment and shooting, now I aim to shoot conservatively and encourage my family members who get handed my camera. I am however able to be much more present in the moment, so present that I forget about many of the photos until I go through them.

On Christmas Eve, I quietly took a moment to myself and asked my brother for a sign. Knowing he would be there, without a doubt, and how much his presence would be missed. I knew, he would make himself known.

Christmas evening as my Grama and I were sitting on the couches, she looked at me and said ‘he’s here’, I, confused at first, looked up at her and she pointed to her rose quartz bracelet she was wearing, Adam had bought for her. Such a heartfelt sign. Especially for grama to word it that way.

Boxing day was beautifully relaxing with so much gratitude. Time spent together, memories made and captured and gifts given and received. As I spent most of the day going through our photos from Christmas, my heart was again reminded. There was 1 photo of me and my siblings. I honestly thought there was more. My daughter taking the photo was having a very hard time getting the camera to focus when it was my siblings and our spouses. I had to help my daughter a couple times to get the camera to focus – yet I could take photos of others and they were in focus. While going through them today, I realized we had 1 sibling photo, of me with my brother and sister. Then it hit me, I found the photo of the siblings and spouses and there beside my brothers head, is our brothers Angel ornament. In the photo below his ornament is directly behind our brother. How appropriate that its beautifully lit up behind us, or the fact that I didn’t realize only 1 was captured and this was it.

Here is our sibling photo… where we all, appear more as each other, even our spiritual sibling. Pretty cool way to get my attention little brother…

I had to go through many of the extended sibling photos as well, again the camera not focusing for my daughter with all of us in the photo. In this one below, the ornament is to the right of my brothers head.

Enjoying our last Christmas with family today and then we will begin to pack things up. Its been enjoyable these past few days including some organizing and de-cluttering. Part of this shift after the holidays is also freeing, which includes freeing up space physically and emotionally. Freeing and permission to feel. To enjoy the down time with no plans. Allowing myself time to relax and come back into flow.

Capturing Family Legacies: The Art of Holiday Memories

Thinking of all those who have a conflicted heart this season. Where you are missing someone, or many people from your life, perhaps both living and passed on.

All while also living your own life. Following your heart, being in the moment, lit up by your passions and loving life. Having fun, laughing. Excited.

It can be both.

I am allowing myself permission, it can always be both. I know one day, some day, this will get easier. My passion however, has lit up even more. Capturing photos for my heart, for my kids and our family legacy, is everything to me. I am truly grateful for this art!

I found this ornament at our local green house, The Mount Forest Greenhouse. Every year I find at least one there that I add to our collection. They have it decorated so beautifully for the Christmas holiday season. So many trees, lights, decorations, ornaments etc! I also found 3 cool white stars that fit perfect behind our tree in the window. Looks great inside and out!

Cherishing Memories: A Heartfelt Christmas Reflection

My heart has been holding a lot this Christmas season, appreciating the time with loved ones and equally the time spent within the walls of my home.

Merry Christmas from our family.

This year, we have a special ornament on the tree. Last year I know my heart was still numb processing the grief of loosing my brother, along with the wild ride of our nephew being born the day after we said our final good bye to Adam. This year, feels more real, more permanent. I miss him that much more. I also know, he is near by, oh how I wish I could hug him.

The cup beside Adams angel, grateful our local funeral home provides these angel ornaments, is one we have had since the year we lost my husbands mom, my mother in law, who sadly passed a couple months before she was ‘officially’ my mother in law, she loved coffee. We have a coffee cup ornament with Diane on it.

Its funny when I am taking pictures, I do try to look at details, as well as the bigger picture, but sometimes that doesn’t happen and when I looked at this image on the computer, I saw it.

This ornament is my boy Elwood, my first dog of my own, he was by my side all the time until I went to school and then he was back with me, he helped raise up on our babies and welcomed us into our new home before it was his time to cross the rainbow bridge. The ornament underneath, was my brothers last Christmas with his family, in 2023. The one with the big smile that although slightly blurry you can still see – that’s my brother Adam. When I went to take the photo of Elwood and Becker’s ornaments, I hadn’t even paid attention to what was around. Appreciate this sign from above <3

My Becker, he truly was one of the kids, the best dog for our kids to grow up alongside with. I am so grateful for him as my 2nd dog. I love these personalized photo ornaments! Some of my favourites on our tree.

This season is always so heart warming, this year does feel more bitter sweet, understandably. Im not sure yet on this journey how this will ever feel normal.

I am grateful for the loved ones within our life. To the ones who show up in even the smallest ways. Who see you for you.

Its reminded me the importance of presence and capturing moments that will forever turn into memories.

I am grateful for those who we have been able to spend time with over this Christmas holiday season and the many photos already captured!

Merry Christmas to all…

Winter Wonderland | Winter Solstice

Another fav from December 2013 – Winter Wonderland!

Growing up in a small town, these are the winters I am used to growing up with, tons of snow, so beautiful!

Today, on December 21st, the days begin getting longer. This morning I spent some conscious time with my journal and my oracle cards – the Rose Oracle.

Pulled 3 cards for the end of 2025 and wrote in my current journal. Then shuffled and set the intention to select 12 cards, one for each month for the new year in 2026 and wrote in my journal to begin 2026. Then pulled I felt inspired to simply pull 1 card for the meaning of what 2026 will bring for us… without shuffling again.

HELD
Sureness of the soil. Unseen help. Support. Community.

Rose Oracle – Held

Card of the day from The Rose Oracle

Sometimes, Life rips from us what we cling to the most. Or perhaps we cling to it for we can feel the cycles of change coming. Yet in the darkness of our longest, darkest night, we discover that it’s in the empty spaces that we can be reached and held the most. It’s in these that we discover a holding that we didn’t know before. And we discover that what we thought was a tomb is actually a womb.

You’re being called to trust that the Great Mother has got you. To trust in the sureness of Her soil. To trust the process of what’s unfolding and that you’re not going through this alone.

Your Life As Art Photography by Pam

Artist & Intuitive | Pamela Zmija

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