Why Have Adults Stopped Asking Questions?

Sadly, our health care system is broken.

I have experienced this myself many years ago. This was what honestly pushed my shift in life towards holistic health. Zero side effects and ease of support.

After my husband fell, we followed the recommended health care options. They sent someone in once a week to check his injury (thank god he has an attentive wife – not everyone has daily support like this), but that was it. When the incision wasn’t healing with the iodine provided, my husband was ready to allow me to try our holistic options and that one spot that wouldn’t close, closed. In a very short time.

The past almost 7 months, yesterday, has been a journey. One that has been a challenge for each of us because its literally out of our control. One cannot force a broken, lets be real, shattered limb to heal quicker. It just doesn’t happen. What has happened is our family has reached a new level of appreciation for life, gratitude, unconditional love – true unconditional love and support, understanding of ourselves and our bodies with regards to physical and emotional healing. Aligning with truth.

This has also opened our eyes even bigger to the massive focus of “health care” with Pharmaceuticals.

Unfortunately, my husband was having a lot of pain and discomfort, the swelling came back again, but only really near his ankle, not the lower leg where it happened before. So last Monday he went to the hospital and requested x-rays. Myself knowing the importance of connecting with his surgeon again, I called and left a message, they were closed until Wed. Husband was told everything is ok, given a prescription for anti-inflammatories and told to get compression socks and came home…

When he told me what he was told, that he requested the x-ray (good man!), was given the pill prescription etc… my response to him was WHY? He looked at me confused. Ok so they prescribed anti-inflammatories, told you to put your foot up more and wear a compression sock… BUT WHY is it swollen!?

Why have adults stopped asking questions?

Im not a doctor, Ive never claimed to be one. However, I have learned the utmost importance of KNOWING your body, KNOWING how it feels and when it feels off. My husband, bless his heart, has been getting so much more in touch with his own body this way and for that I am SO proud of him. As frustrating as this situation is for us at this moment.

A week after having x-ray’s, spoke with the surgeon’s office last Wednesday, set up a follow up appointment with them for the following Wednesday “just in case”, my husband got a phone call from the doctors office on Monday, a week later, advising that there is a hardware fracture. I reached out to a family member who is a nurse, to ask her “normal protocol”, should it take a WEEK to get a call about an issue that not only my husband expressed he was in pain and was having a hard time walking, when I called and left the message at the clinic I emphasized how much pain he was in AND that he thought he felt something move the week prior.

Needless to say, yesterday was almost a complete write off for both of us, emotionally. 7 months into this healing journey and it feels like going backwards. On one hand its good to have answers, Im proud of my husband for knowing something that wrong and pushing for answers. As frustrating and unknown as this is.

I debated about sharing this, as it is more personal, HOWEVER… this is what fires me up, what pushes me to encourage everyone towards Empowered Health. Every single one of us is different, our bodies, our health, everything about us. So when any medical professional tells you something that doesn’t feel right… ITS OK TO QUESTION IT! Its your right!

I learned this years ago, after being told I was in the “normal range” for years… If you do not feel right, you know your body best, there IS something off. I choose to say something off, vs something wrong. Because it literally could simply be shifting your sleep or eating habits. Life is a trial and error journey.

Our health care system has almost entirely been shut down multiple times during this past 15 months, only allowing certain things to be done etc. A friend of ours lost her partner and their daughters lost their dad. I understand there is a flu like virus making people sick. However, if you have read any previous posts regarding health care, there is a lot of people sadly dying from other things than covid… Anyone with an illness or injury matters. Especially when a person is in physical pain and discomfort.

Truthfully, I knew SOMETHING was wrong because when we used oils on his leg and back, the swelling went down. I love the inflammation protocol I use because it truly does work! Nature knows. But, even after surgery, the swelling will go down, when there is inflammation in the body of any kind there IS a reason. The trick is finding that reason!

Everyone’s health matters. Its time to fix our broken health care system! I could just sit down shut up and accept what is… however nothing will change if everyone just sits back and says ok, “they” said this so we must do this… Our own individual health care has never been the responsibility of our government, until now?! Why? Well for my health, for my family’s health, it will always 100% be OUR responsibility and no one else’s, especially the government!

Trust The Timing

💫 Trust the Timing 💫

Was the card I pulled when I decided to head into my space and move my body. Admittedly, it’s been a few weeks.

See a set back, like an arrow being pulled back… getting ready to release.

Trust the timing.

We’ve had a couple set backs, that truthfully I don’t deal well with “unknowns”. I am learning to trust the process, trust in Divine timing that all will be well 🙏 and Patience is a Virtue!

So for today, I will focus on MY wins…

♥️ I not only found a sports bra that fits AND supports… its also LOCAL!!!
♥️ The same store has breathable bamboo underwear!!!
♥️ I moved my body and embraced the sweat dripping off my back!
♥️ Listened to @jamiefitzpatrickentrepreneur and @kim_m_fitzpatrick podcast in my ear while working out. Omg Kim I had a neon too 😂
♥️ My husband is here and healthy, my children are healthy, I am healthy. We have each other.
♥️ Its 100% OK to cry… no matter where you are! Don’t shy away from feelings, this can cause dis-ease in the body.
♥️ Your health matters. Empowered health. It’s ok to ask questions, sometimes its required to get answers. What can you learn in the moment?
♥️ Did I mention I found bras locally!!! Bra’s Glore and More in Neustadt!
♥️ The weather is simply beautiful. I am so grateful everyday for choosing to take the leap and create our dream home.
♥️ Trust the timing. What can we learn during this chapter of our journey?

🙏

Growth

Growth 🌱🌎☘
We can all learn so much from Nature. The way the leaves fall before winter, a dark quiet time with little visible growth, but survival, strength builds on the inside, maybe not as obvious, until spring blesses us with its sunshine and warmer temperatures. Nature knows. Nature trusts, when the timing is right. What’s meant to be, will be. After a short time of dormancy, the great awakening and it is incredibly beautiful!

Human’s can learn so much from nature, with a slower paced life… 🙏♥️

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Love Your F*cking Life!

THIS!

All of this.
For someone with a true PASSION for capturing memories and moments. That is what has crushed me the most this past 15 months.
Life is NOT meant to be lived in isolation.
As much as I love my home, I love quiet evenings. I also love being around my people. I love seeing and hearing people laughing, having fun.
I was teetering feeling very low, filled with anxiety, the unknown and uncertainty. It hit me this weekend. I’m glad I leaned in last week and honored me.
Also reminded me to ALWAYS live in alignment. Which is standing for what I believe in, not just because it’s what I believe, because of real life experiences, examples, actual data and living in truth of ethics and values.
Life is so damn precious. People used to tell me when our babies were young how quickly it will go. They aren’t kidding.
These past 15 months our kids have not only grown alot, they are maturing into young adults.

Take your life and make it the BEST story in the world.

Don’t waste that shit!!! 🙌

And… don’t be afraid to move your body… and LOVE the skin you are in 😍

P.s. And just take the fucking photos. Your kids will get to an age they dont want their pics taken or shared online. Always take the pic, for your memories♥️
They are so precious. Especially of our children with various family members on both sides of our family. 🥰😭📷

Your Pain Matters

Years ago while our son was doing homework, he had music playing and I remember calling down to him to turn it off so he could “focus better”. This was one of my revelations that we ALL learn so differently. Our son told me he can focus better WITH the music on.

It didn’t take me long to know exactly what he meant by that. As soon as he told me that I heard myself say, YES that is so true! I told my son to do what he needed to do to feel productive. When I listen to pod casts or you tube videos or music while working – whether at work or home, it goes by so fast and I feel so productive!

Listening to Kim and Jamie Fitzpatrick’s new pod cast – The Fitzlife Unfiltered. In their 2nd podcast, I understood better why I had an energetic pull to them and more specifically me to Kim, SO many similarities in our lives even the age difference between the the ladies and men, 8 years LOL!

What stood out to me in their 2nd episode, as they talked about when Jamie had a cardiac arrest and Kim said – Your Pain Matters. Regardless of when the pain happened.

I am truly grateful for this reminder. As, well we have all been through some form of pain in each of our lives. No one can judge the pain one person has and determine that their pain is more than anyone elses. All of our lives are different and our feelings matter.

I wanted to share this reminder, because its never been more true for so many of us right now. Navigating the truths of our lives and understanding that we do not need anyone else to validate how we are feeling OR what we know is truth in our heart.

Your pain matters – regardless of what that pain is, who you are, where you live, what colour your skin is or your state of your health. If you are IN pain – that is enough validation to lean in to YOU and do what YOU need to honor that pain and be able to move freely again.

Truth Has Endurance

If there is one thing in life, its that the truth will ALWAYS prevail. It may not be immediate, but Truth has endurance. Lies have speed.

There was a document circulating around that I saw a screen shot of yesterday. So of course, use discernment, if you see something – do the research yourself. Which is what I have shared screen shots of below. Now more than ever, its so important to get grounded in what you firmly believe in and know as truth – for yourself and your family.

LIGHT IS RIGHT.

Which means, if you feel heavy, tense, unsure, its not right – something energetically is out of balance.

https://www.publichealthontario.ca/-/media/documents/ncov/epi/covid-19-epi-confirmed-cases-post-vaccination.pdf
Clickable link to the Public Health PDF Document – Below is the actual link as well

Source – https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.publichealthontario.ca/-/media/documents/ncov/epi/covid-19-epi-confirmed-cases-post-vaccination.pdf&ved=2ahUKEwj55tHVjrbwAhXEB80KHRqSBOkQFjAMegQIJRAC&usg=AOvVaw0VbK5SGjWXscAZ5KHgYRYh

Why I am sharing this graph is because the people of Ontario are being kept on “lockdown” I wont get into bad mouthing the government, lets just leave it as I have clear concerns that there is something that is not making sense at all. Look at the graph above. We are being kept in lockdown because of rising cases… Look at all covid cases and the relevance with those who have already had a vaxx… A reminder this was released by public health so Ontario KNOWS THIS and yet we are still being kept on “lockdown”…

The Truth Has Endurance
Truth Will Set You Free

Nature Knows

The Cosmic Heart

This evening, I was reminded about the importance of balance in life. My sweet little baker created a family fav… magic bars! I poured into myself after work and moved my body. Drank a bunch of water before and after. Then, I ate the magic bars!😋

I was feeling slightly down after work, another dark, dreary, cold. My motivation was pretty low. But… I grabbed my cheer roller and rolled it on any visible skin! Started the diffuser with Spearmint and Eucalyptus – beautifully fresh and uplifting!

By the time I finished my work out, I could feel myself pulling back up! Rather than thinking of “ALL” I need to do, take it one step at a time AND delegate! It’s truly remarkable and appreciated how multiple hands make light work!

My card: The Cosmic Heart
Devotion • Potency • Make Your Life A Moving Prayer

Flowing • Refocus • Inner • Truth • Heart • Deep •  Devotion • Soul • Live • Prayer 🙏

I had 8 of those little squares.
…and enjoyed every last bite!
I now understand the importance of quality over quantity. My body is grateful for this too✌😂🙌 As a healing emotional eater, this is awesome progress, listening and being led by my body and how I feel 💫

Let’s Get Up

The week off was good!
I felt it in my core, I should have listened to myself a few days prior. I am grateful that I felt like I was going to let myself down, by taking a break, because that means what I’m doing, is working. Mentally and physically.

I oiled up, a lot. Wrote a lot. Dove into a new book!

It’s just sometimes, things can feel heavy, pain can set in and emotions flow. I’m getting better each day with letting go. Focusing on what is within ME!

With futuristic as my top strength this can be a beautiful but at times stressful trait. The ying and the yang. Seeing what can and is possible, then being faced with blurred lines. Day 1 and I am loving Let’s Get Up!!! The more I learn, the more I master my own depths and heights, I understand the importance of modeling this for my children and even my husband. These past 6+ months have added additional stress in our lives, that we continue to grow around and understand even more that damp, dreary days are for rest and ease. For all of us 😉

There comes a time in life, for everything that once haunted us – whatever that means for you, to face it, feel it and move forward! Sometimes just in a wee bit different way, which is totally ok!

Be an example. I am proud at what I have accomplished but not just that, with what I can do! Rather than starting this new program in my office, I spread out in the living room… with all of the family upstairs!🥰

In my own life, I’ve hit the depths of depression and have been challenged with anxiety. Feeling completely ‘out’ of control can build on this. What I was reminded of is that I am IN control, of my life. I am also a beautiful influential figure in my children’s lives. As Angela Kontgen says, go within or go without. She gave me a beautiful reminder last night, when feeling ‘out’ of control, go within. It’s the external world putting those unrealistic thoughts based on the outside external world. An external world that, yes, I can find so exhausting. I truly have been grateful for not having much to do amidst all this, because I’m not sure that I could or how I could deal with the impending restrictions just to be able to do whatever. Which, no, isn’t natural. My heart and soul is feeling the transition and I’m opening myself more and more to that each day. The transition between bad to good, evil to peace and fear or hate to pure love.

It’s happening… I can feel it. I recognize the feeling, after I rose up, alone in my health journey. We are never alone.

Let’s Get Up! 🙌

#allindivinetiming

I also found these interesting news article titles from a couple and few years back… so interesting and thought provoking!

https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/ottawa/cheo-unprecedented-demand-2019-flu-season-1.5309339

https://www.cdc.gov/flu/about/season/flu-season-2017-2018.htm

https://www.thestar.com/news/canada/2017/04/16/surge-in-patients-forces-ontario-hospitals-to-put-beds-in-unconventional-spaces.html

https://socialistproject.ca/2019/02/hospital-overload/

https://time.com/5107984/hospitals-handling-burden-flu-patients/

https://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/national/hospital-overcrowding-has-become-the-norm-in-ontario-figures-show/article35076965/

http://www.hqontario.ca/Portals/0/Documents/pr/measuring-up-2018-en.pdf

#allindivinetiming 

Revelations

I had a few revelations this past weekend that I wanted to share.

I could feel myself teetering on the edge of depression, anxiety, honestly a combination.

The winter is typically the hardest for most people, its darker, meaning less natural light, colder, less to do outside because of the weather.

What hit me this weekend is that in this past year and a half our kids have grown up super fast. At a rate I truly do admire and respect them for, but also at a rate of WTF?!

I have always reminded myself, enjoy the stage you are in because it wont last forever. Yes some of those stages felt like, forever.

Now more than ever with two teens, both doing remote learning and pretty much have been on and off for what 15 months now. Our lives have drastically changed, especially for children and parents.

I have always been interested in energy, but didn’t really know how to explain it earlier in my life, so what I gravitated towards was horoscopes and it always blew me away how aligned they could be!

I received this email, from Moon Omens for the month of May <3

May 2021 is likely to be a month of intellectual restlessness, heightened stimulation, and quick change: it has the potential to be an interesting chapter of our learning journey. During the first half of the month, before Eclipse Season starts, we have an opportunity to ground in our body and establish a strong connection with our foundation, which will help us handle any changes and volatility from a self-secure place. Jupiter in Pisces will support our capacity to tap into our imagination, creativity, and connect with a strong sense of faith.

Eclipses open a portal of change, they are gateways of transformation, they bring us opportunities and revelations and allow us to quantum leap into the future. May 2021 has the potential to represent an exciting time for many of us: the invitation is to stay open to the unfamiliar and trust ourselves enough to join the shift without fear.

What I do truly love about this is, along my journey as I grow and learn I do feel my energy in May is already so much stronger than April. Especially the end of April.

Release the Fear, Live in Love

I am truly grateful for this wee furry kitten. She came into our life last year at the perfect, and slightly unexpected time. What we once thought was an emotional month, losing our beloved Paisley cat and finding our Missy, January was nothing compared to what we braced for in March.

Missy continues to remind us daily the importance of patience. She has her daily routine and outside of that it can feel like 50 First Dates 😂.

She is a sweet loving girl who will never ever have to live in fear again and will always be loved.

(Read that last sentence again…)

Kind of like each of us can… 🥰

She is learning trust and love more and more each day, because we respect her and her need for space and tell her every day she is loved and her big brother would probably love her too 😉

Although she spends most of her time downstairs, she ventures up at night, has acquainted herself with the bird, understands the pet order of the house and curiously is intrigued by daytime life upstairs.

A good kitty lesson about trust, love, living in alignment to release fear and choose love, regardless of what may have driven you to that fear in the past ! 🥰🙏💫

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Artist & Intuitive | Pamela Zmija

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