If Tomorrow Never Comes

If Tomorrow Never Comes
-author unknown
If I knew it would be the last time that I’d see you fall asleep, …
I would tuck you in more tightly and pray the Lord, your soul to keep.
If I knew it would be the last time that I see you walk out the door,
I would give you a hug and kiss and call you back for one more.
If I knew it would be the last time I’d hear your voice lifted up in praise,
I would video tape each action and word, so I could play them back day after day.
If I knew it would be the last time, I could spare an extra minute or two to stop and say “I love you,” instead of assuming, you would KNOW I do.
If I knew it would be the last time I would be there to share your day, well I’m sure you’ll have so many more, so I can let just this one slip away. For surely there’s always tomorrow to make up for an oversight, And we always get a second chance to make everything right.
There will always be another day to say our “I love you’s,”
And certainly there’s another chance to say our “Anything I can do’s?”
But just in case I might be wrong, and today is all I get, I’d like to say how much I love you and I hope we never forget, Tomorrow is not promised to anyone, young or old alike, And today may be the last chance you get to hold your loved one tight.
So if you’re waiting for tomorrow, why not do it today? For if tomorrow never comes, you’ll surely regret the day, That you didn’t take that extra time for a smile, a hug, or a kiss and you were too busy to grant someone, what turned out to be their one last wish. So hold your loved ones close today, whisper in their ear, Tell them how much you love them and that you’ll always hold them dear, Take time to say “I’m sorry,” “please forgive me,” “thank you” or “it’s okay.” And if tomorrow never comes, you’ll have no regrets about today.·
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No post is complete without a photo… this one is of hub’s and I from this summer on our family boat trip.
Water so peaceful and relaxing,stir’s up in a storm and can begin crashing.
Waves high and low, fast or slow. Much like life, sometimes you never know.
Just like when he water crashes down on the shore, with each wave comes a new pattern, coming back together while flowing in a new direction. Pamela Zmija

Within the story… week 1 – STORY

While browsing around on facebook I came across an interesting post by Follow Your Art Photography. I was drawn to it and so I clicked on it. This is the link…

http://www.withinthestory.com/2012/02/03/volume-1-story/

Join us in being a part of with.in.

This invitation is extended not only to photographers but to anyone who would like to be involved.

Personally, we invite you to define your own life experiences.

  • We will announce a word every Monday for your inspiration in creating your own weekly memoir.
  • Each week we challenge you to create your own memoir, by using or combining pictures, written words, projects, art, music etc.
  • Document your weekly challenge on your own personal or business blogs, facebook, flickr, instagram (#withinthestory), or youtube.
  • Somewhere in your personal memoir post please make sure to say that you are a part of the with.in movement and provide our website address http://www.withinthestory.com so that others can share in the journey of with.in.
  • Then, on the following Monday (which allows you one week to complete your memoir) we invite you to post the URL link for your weekly submission in that Mondays’ blog post comment section. Allowing us to all share in this experience together.

We pose to you a simple question. Why should you be involved? We would like for you to answer that question on your own and decide for yourself what you can gain from this experience. We hope that you will be a part of our vision, and encourage others to do the same.

To answer their question …

Why would I want to be involved. Ironically I mentioned doing something like this to my husband just this weekend (see my previous post). What can I gain from this, is not only a new insight to the creative eye of photography but also creative and also unpredictable photos of my family and life.

I am excited to be a part of this. This is what Ive been looking for.My own weekly project with a twist, not just a 52, its within.the.story.of.my.life!

What does the photo above mean, these rings hold a lot of stories, they hold a lot of meaning of where our marriage – our story, our life, our family – began. My engagement ring, our wedding rings and a ring my husband gave me during the last few days of our 10th year together.

Not only do these rings hold meaning, they remind me of our story, looking at them I can see us in Dominican, on the balcony where my husband proposed to me, where he asked me to be his wife.The day we put our wedding rings on each others fingers and promised a life of love and happiness. These rings are a story of where our family began and where it will continue being.

 

Photography Is Art

Photography is art. As a photographer I am an Artist. An artist is someone who looks at something and ultimately see’s something completely different than the next person. Which is why being an artist as a photographer is unique.

There are many photographers, even more so now that DSLR’s are very common and alsmost a staple in every household with children. This was my reasoning to purchasing my first DSLR. Although many think there is incredible compeition within the Photography industry, I am beginning to see the exact opposite.

For me Photography truly is an art, some where I take the fine detail, pay very close attention and get an eye for the image before it is even captured, whereas other I embrace the whole picture and get a feel for everything going on in the environment of the photo to be taken.

As a photographer we all have our own style, our own way of interpreting various styles of photography – mine being candid & lifestyle. Which is also a relfection of me as a person.

Just like many artists, including music, I thoroughly enjoy the talent of another photographer and their view on the world and their subjects. Being a part of our local Camera Club has truly been an amazing opportunity to get to know other very talented Photographers in our own surrounding area and appreciate the beauty of their own art.  

Your Life As Art Photography came to me as I was thinking of a way to describe MY photography… My Photography for myself and my family truly is an artistic display of our family. This is where my website name came from www.yourlifeasartphotography.com

My blog, if you would like to follow, is www.pamelazmijablog.wordpress.com

My blog is a way for me to showcase my photography of all forms and… levels. From myself, my family, still subjects, animals and any clients.

For 2012, rather than going forward with growth of my business, I am going forward with growth in myself, my family and my photography. What does this mean? I will be taking on a very limited number of sessions so that I still enjoy the beauty photography provides me for my own enjoyment and family.

 
I am a wife, mother and most importantly ME!

What makes ME? My love of memories, photography, my family, husband, children, wine, music, cooking, boating, outdoors, warm sunshine, sweet light, green grass, beautiful landscape, the beach, water, my pets, animals. Not all in that order but its all a true reflection of who I am.

 
Although this decision to take a small step back, may seem … small. I have given it a great deal of thought. Much of this thought going to ‘do I push to grow…’ while also working full time in my family business, or as I mentioned above put the effort into the growth of myself, my family which will then influence my family and perhaps offer me more satisfaction and enjoyment. This is a small step, yet large in my life. I know some fantastic photographers in our area and over the past year have been very lucky to have gotten to know them even better! I would not hestitate for a moment to recommend a fellow photographer if I am unavailable.
 
For me and as a wife and mother I am very satisfied with my decision. Not only does this offer me more photographic time and creativity with and for my family, it also allows me the opportuntiy to enjoy my fellow photographers work even more. As an artist, just like writers block, we too need to get our photographic creative juices flowing again and this is just the beginning! <3

Memories… never forgotten!

I am a wife, mom and passionate photographer. I enjoy music, wine, cooking, boating, hockey, being with my family and all are fabulous photo op’s! My photography ranges from newborn to weddings, however in 2012 Ive decided to limit the amount of sessions I do take on (as I am a fullt ime working wife & mom). After spending the weekend going through photos from our summer in July until the winter in December and realizing the amazing photos that I hadn’t yet even seen or processed, this reminded me my importance as a mother and wife, to my own family and our memories! Sessions will be available, however by appointment only and a limited amount of sessions. If I am not available I would be more than happy to recommend another photographer in the area! This photo is one I treasure, as Ive posted previously its rare I am in front of the camera – however thats going to change as well. My kids LOVE looking at photos, it reminds them of things that even I may have forgotten (for the moment). When I was uploading my photos (Flickr is another source of backing up for me) I realized just how many photos I still have left to process from 2011… photos we should have been enjoying and sending to family and friends. Sure something simple, sure its something I can always come back to, always puts a smile on my face, but something that in 2012 and for years to come is taking more priority in my life for OUR memories! Breaking into the photographer world and doing sessions for others, was and is amazing, however I did learn I have to limit myself if I want to continue enjoying photography as MY hobby and MY

Summer memories… blogging 52!

We had a very crazy fall and right into winter, which didn’t give me much opportunity to take some time for myself and edit our family photos (which was a lot of them!). Today while the entire family all took some alone quiet time I took to the computer to get some photos in order. Trust me if you could hear my kids talk about photos and how much they love looking back at them, you would MAKE this a priority too ;)

Every summer since hubby and I got married (except 1) we have spent a long weekend at my aunt and uncles cottage which is on a beautiful closed in lake a few hours from our house. The kids adore this family weekend and much like we do, look forward to it every year!

This photo below speaks to me and shows exactly why our kids love it there so much! They aren’t looking at me, yet I can hear and see exactly what they are saying and how excited they are (to catch fish!).

Our family loves being outdoors when its nice out, the weather these past few days has had the kids looking out the windows happily singing “its spring, its spring we can go in the boat soon!” haha yes we wish… until that time comes I will happily continue to photograph our life and catch up on 2011’s photos from June to December (with moving, putting our beloved family dog down, new puppy, back to school, surgery, Christmas we had a very busy 6mths)!.

I was contemplating doing a 365, but lets be real, me and photography and rules do not mix, so by setting up my own “rule” that I “have” to take a photo every day, just isn’t going to make me do it. Hubby suggested doing a 52 lol one for every week. I can most certainly do that. Most week’s Im sure I will do more than just one, but I will at least attempt to hold myself to blogging once – at least once – per week!

Which will mean using BOTH my blackberry for photos AND my Canon DSLR’s for photos. Memories are priceless and meant to be treasured forever – I LOVE hearing my kids talk about “remember when… hold on I’ll get the picture” awesome!

Pinterest love…

I finally caved a few weeks ago and took the plunge into Pinterest.

WOW… I am slightly addicted to the site merely because it is a fabulous resource to come back to – just like a bulletin board, but what is especially perfect for me (who doesnt like cut and paste) its digital!!!

So many fabulous things can be “pinned” – including my own photography (which is so cool!). Our future plans for a kitchen reno (when kids and pup get a bit older), our shop ideas for hubby, photography ideas or framing suggestions, my style for me and our house, the kids rooms, yummy food – such yummy food, great sayings and quotes. The possibilities are endless really.

Ive pinned some of the shots Ive taken for the shop (@jjmclellanHVAC) and have started a board for sports – to pin the Patriots – I have some images from Wednesday and Thursday evening I need to process – however if you were there at the game Thursday you would have saw me ever so graciously fall flat on my face (but saved my camera and lens) on the ice. Yes I am still quite sore. The funny thing is when mom & Erin went in to tell hubby about my fall (he is the team bartender) they immediately said its ok she saved the camera haha. Yes I can heal, my camera, not so much so I am glad its safe! Once I get these images edited I will get them up online. Im still quite stiff and sore, so sitting at the computer desk just isnt too comfy right now – Im sticking to the couch and lazy boy. Amazing how one fall can hurt SO much. And no, I hadnt even had a sip of my drink yet.

Are you on Pinterest? Ive posted some of our Niagara Falls images… Once I have more time I will be updating more photos as well. Much like my blog, Pinterest is for not only my photography, but also for ideas for our life/family. The best part is you can pin any image online – SO cool!

Another reminder though to those of you who enjoy photography and sharing your images online – another reason to watermark your images… Yes I even watermark my own photos whether they are landscape, my kids/family, pets, and especially any clients. Photography is a huge part of my life and I would hate to have this passion ruined by images being stolen (which has happened to photographers I know).

If you are on pinterest follow us at http://pinterest.com/jpzmija01/ …

A Winter Getaway – relax & recharge!

Hubby and I were very lucky to have the opportunity to get away just the two of us – huge thanks to mom & dad who watched our kids and fur baby for us :)

Having young kids and having gone through years of heart ache, although we were each others biggest support, we also needed to make the time to get away just for us. Unfortunately almost since we met we have had various outside stressors/issues which have very much affected our daily life and family, from family illness, the loss of a parent, loss of family, infertility, more family illnesses & loss…

What better way to start the new year than with a long weekend away with zero responsibilities or worries! It was just what we needed and completely enjoyed every single second we had together. Of course we missed our lil’s – thats a given. But now that they are getting older and past the baby stage its going away more together and as a family so much easier! (Bring on summer so we can get out on our new boat!!!).

To view more photos from our weekend away in Niagara Falls check out – Niagara Falls 2012

I love summer!

I love summer. We as a family love summer. In the dead of winter, even though we haven’t had much of winter – mother nature is very confused thse past few years – sure winter has been fun with skating and hockey but we are very ready for summer!

I finally went through photos of our kids and family to get more for the walls, these are some that got printed – I love love love these. At one of our favourite places ever – the family cottage !

We had our first camera club meeting of the year – I am SO pumped for photography, I want weather to get out shooting! One new member brought a GORGEOUS hard cover 365 scrap book – which also has me motivated to do more with the photos Ive taken every year.

Cheers to many more photos for this year ! <3

 

 

Your Life As Art Photography by Pam

Artist & Intuitive | Pamela Zmija

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