Daily writing prompt
What’s the most profound piece of advice you’ve been given? Did you take it?
When I read this, what jumped into my head was something my daughter said to me many years ago, probably at least 10. Someone had mailed her a birthday card. This person made little effort to be in the kids life, their choice, and when the card was received in the mail I focused on how nice that was that you were thought of for a card to be mailed. The people pleaser in me, suggested a phone call to thank for the birthday card that was mailed.
My wee daughter looked at me and said, so let me get this straight, people don’t have to come see me or call me but I have to?
It was in that moment, she taught me a very valuable lesson, people will come in and out of our lives, many times without our own choice, and thats ok. However we do not need to self sabotage on ourselves giving out more energy to those who do not reciprocate. Duly noted my girl!
We sat down and she wrote a thank you letter. We mailed it and never heard if it was ever received, the odd time she still receives a mailed card and its her choice how, or if she responds to it <3
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Pam is a dedicated mom and wife who gracefully balances family life with her deep passions for photography, holistic wellness, and community. As a macro and lifestyle photographer, she has a unique eye for capturing the intricate beauty in everyday moments-illuminating details that are often overlooked. Through her lens, Pam invites others to see the world from a fresh, mindful perspective.
Beyond her artistic endeavors, Pam plays a vital role in her family's HVAC and Plumbing business. With a background in CIM management, she brings a thoughtful blend of operational expertise and genuine customer care, contributing to the business's strong reputation for quality and service.
A certified Reiki Master, Pam is also deeply rooted in the world of holistic health. Her journey through personal and family health challenges has shaped her into a compassionate advocate for energy healing and balanced living. Having overcome struggles with invisible illnesses, Pam has transformed her life by embracing a holistic approach-mentally, physically, and spiritually.
Through all her roles-photographer, healer, businesswoman, and mother-Pam lives by the belief that life itself is an art form. She empowers others to slow down, connect deeply, and discover the beauty and healing power within the present moment.
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